gender
Mirror, Mirror
I’ve got a crazy idea. . . I’m not sure this is realistic, but. . . What if. . . I’ve always wanted to. . . Don’t you cherish conversations about aspirational ideas with special people who respond positively and authentically? I love that idea! What if…? Of course you could do that! Emilie …
What’s possible?
Change starts with noticing what’s happening and then wondering what’s possible. Think of any “successful” civil rights movement around the world. Thinking might have started out as a reaction against injustice shifted somewhere along the way to wondering, “what’s next?” “What’s possible?” The U.S. suffrage movement experimented with different approaches to female suffrage – state by state …
Curiosity killed the cat, but. . .
“Curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought it back.” That’s the saying, right? I’m not sure what to make of the sentiment when we add the rejoinder. Perhaps it has something to do with the mythical nine lives of cats. They take risks because they can. Maybe… As a human without the benefits of nine …
The Suffrage Myth
Women in the United States didn’t gain the right to vote in 1920. Nope. Women in the United States regained the right to vote. Women voted in the U.S. colonies before 1920. The intersections of gender, race, social class, age, religion, nation, politics, and democracy have always mattered in this country. Women (privileged women) voted …
Pickles, Feminism & Women in My Family
My grandmother created them. My mother kept them safe. I discovered them. My daughter wanted them. And, together we both met my grandmother for the first time as we canned her homemade pickle recipes. Salt. Vinegar. Alum. Dill. Sugar. Cucumbers. Jars. Hours. Days. Weeks. Months. Adherence to the quality, simplicity, and process. How many …
“Be who you are.”
When I was a doctoral student, my mentor gave a group of us this advice. We were about to give conference presentations at a predominantly masculinized event and felt the pressure of academic conformity looming. “Be who you are” she told us. Wherever you are. Be who you are. I’ve taken this advice to heart …